Subject of the Month~ Jan 2018 Sankalpa, The Resolve from Within

For many, this is the time of year to set into motion our resolutions, those changes we feel will bring improvement to some aspect of our life. There has been a great deal of study over the last years on how our approach affects whether our resolution will make a sustained positive effect in our life.  This research points to what the teachings of yoga have always told us; the most beneficial approach is to set a sankalpa- to go deeply into the longings of the heart and mind, touch the qualities here where we are most genuine and undefended, and set a resolve that aligns our energy, thoughts and actions with what serves that. Sankalpas are broad, and include the well-being of others as well as our own needs simply because they are rooted in a space that is inclusive and compassionate. By building on the realizations of what we already are, and the intelligent energies we already have, we touch a vast wisdom space of patient, steady, limitless resolve to embody our sankalpa skillfully toward a specific goal, or in a general life direction.

In the last months, our practices have strengthened our connection with this heart/mind space through seva (selfless service), loving-kindness meditations, and resting in stillness. Continuing with these, yoga nidra, and gentle inquiries, our sankalpa can form and be revealed. The qualities of strength, right effort and resilience developed from our asana practice can guide our movements in bringing this outward to the world. We can hold the same resolution as we would make in the traditional sense, yet approach from a place more far-reaching, communal and pervasive.  Remembering the underlying sense of purpose or joy that inspired our sankalpa will help immensely in keeping our desire to maintain it strong.

In his recent New York Times article, “The Only Way to Keep Your Resolutions”, David DeSteno summarizes the research that indicates a reason hard-nosed, willpower fueled resolutions often fail is that they place the brain in a constant battle between giving up pleasures of the present for perceived future gains. A good measure of self-control is needed to effect any change, yet if the nervous system feels forced into the new behavior, stress increases.  It therefore becomes more likely we will opt out as our mood deteriorates and the future gains lose their relative value. However, the research shows if we can approach the change we want to make from a place of gratitude, compassion, and pride (not arrogance, rather an appreciation of what we can do), it ties us to a kind of social more that uplifts the future value because the value now includes the well-being of others as well as our “future self”. As communal beings, we are hard-wired to want to sustain activities that benefit the group as well as the individual from the perspective of survival and emotional connection, and setting a sankalpa optimizes the energy of this. “Feeling pride or compassion has been shown to increase perseverance on difficult tasks by over 30 percent. Likewise, gratitude and compassion have been tied to better academic performance, a greater willingness to exercise and eat healthily, and lower levels of consumerism, impulsivity and tobacco and alcohol use. If using willpower causes stress, using these emotions actually heals: They slow heart rate, lower blood pressure and reduce feelings of anxiety and depression. By making us value the future more, they ease the way to patience and perseverance…. In short, they give us not only grit but also grace.”

To transcend our limited and separate sense of self, we need to know the the Self that lies beyond our personal desires, and our sankalpa provides the grace for that introduction. Once that meeting happens, a whole new and beautiful relationship with all in our lives is possible.

To get a head start on your sankalpa for 2018, check out the following workshop:

Creating Intention-Your Sankalpa for 2018 (Newtown) with Susan Sprecher                                                             Fri : Jan 05 2018 From: 6:00 PM – 8:00 PM

 

Reference: https://www.nytimes.com/2017/12/29/opinion/sunday/the-only-way-to-keep-your-resolutions.html

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